It's Better to Fit In

It's Better to Fit In

Since I am a huge fan of people watching, I tend to see a lot of interesting apparel choices on a day-to-day basis.  Sometimes I see outfits that make me want to go shopping, and sometimes I see outfits that make me want to hide.  I know y'all understand this feeling!

Most of the time these atrocities aren't just the bad, mixed patterns, or the pajama get-ups, but they are the skin tight clothing items that are not flattering at all.  This makes me wonder, why do people try so hard to Squeeze into their clothing when they know it does not look good?  Do they also see what I see?  

        

Instead of trying so hard to Stand Out, they should be trying to Fit In!

Now let me define what I mean by Fit In instead of Standing Out.  As someone who has always believed that it is better to make a name for yourself than to fade into the crowd, I am not advising you to stop standing out.  By fitting in I mean actually fitting into your clothing.

Many women, and men, think that to look their best they have to hug every single one of their curves.  Instead, they should be dressing up their body in a way that flatters their shape.  Buying the right size of clothing, knowing what styles look best on you, and realizing that you have a specific body shape will allow you to fit in instead of looking over-stuffed.

Now I bet you are wondering, what kind of body shape do I have?  Well here are some examples of the most common body shapes, and some ways to make sure you fit in your clothing!

If you are Hippy:

Fit-and-flare clothing items, as well as flowing skirts, are very flattering for your body style.  Accentuating your hips will be key for you, but remember to balance yourself out with patterns up-top.  Striped, Floral or Polka Dot patterned tops with solid bottoms will give you a balanced look.  Don't limit yourself though, mix it up some!

If you are Busty:

Avoid clothing that is too tight.  I know the saying "if you got it, flaunt it" might be ringing in your head, but accentuating rather than squishing will do you good!  Looser V-neck styles and button-up tops that are flowing will look best on you.  Wearing bottoms with patterns and solid colored tops will also be flattering!

If you have a Thicker Waist:

Creating a waistline is essential for a slimmer appearance.  Pencil skirts, Midi Skirts and Shift Dresses will cinch in your waist.  Also, using slimmer belts when tucking in your tops will add to the waistline effect.  Avoid clothes that are too baggy, but instead, emphasize your good points!

And also remember, regardless of your size and shape, you are BEAUTIFUL.  

Stay Sassy,

Fashionably Sassy and Stylishly Classy